Tulsa's Local Dating Service

Hey! What's this about "less moral, less pure"?!! I'm very moral...... AND I get to define my own morals while I'm at it! :)

I've recently met someone special here on OkCupid (yes, you Ari!!) and I'm representing myself "in a relationship", although that part is a bit complicated. (!!!) Not particulary looking for more dating type stuff, but we both are up for getting out and making new friends! Poly most definately doesn't want a cracker (maybe, slim to none, etc), this is Oklahoma after all.

Although no one is perfect and we all have bad days, I don't have much patience for drama queens,players, addicts, or anyone who is unwilling to be happy. All of that interferes with everybodies happy.

I am a good woman, I like swimming,fishing,hicking, and camping. I also like going for walks and having fun and shopping. I enjoy hanging out with friends and family. I enjoy music and sometimes a good movie. I enjoy a nice glass of sweet wine and cuddling up in front of an nice fire. I like holding hands with the right man and being held close.

Hi! I am a fun-loving guy that believes in honesty and open communication. Some would call me a nut or comedian, depending on their personality. I love to meet new people and I truly value my friendships. Feel free to drop me a line if your so inclined.

if your still reading ,thats all true and i am not looking , just here to have something to do when i get off work . i work nights and its just me and the house mouse up til everyone gets up and off to school and such .

Hello!

I am a polyamorous woman who, while married, is seeking a female partner. Either for me and my husband or me alone.

I am easy going, fun, light hearted, have a good sense of humor, like to cuddle, and am a very touchy feely person. I am looking for the same.

While I would like a companion on a regular basis, I am open to shorter time frame relationships.

I love to text, so if you can get through my profile and are still interested, feel free to text me at nine one eight eight five five five nine two nine.

Is it not funny how people can write all day about other people, with only a little hesatation. But, when it comes to writing something about yourself, it seems near imposible.
Well you could say I have a lot of interests, and many of them are important to me. I like the idea, make of life what you can, and enjoy it for what it brings you.

Hey, my name is Morgan. I'm a fun loving and spontaneous person. I've been told that I have a good sense of humor. I aim to show a woman a good time and treat her the way she should be treated. I'm hoping to meet a fun, outgoing girl to build a healthy relationship with.

Generally I don't beat around the bush. lol. Straight forward is the best way to be with me. So If you want to know something just ask me.

Music is my life, I am a singer/songwriter/musician. I am lead vocalist for my industrial rock/pop band Sownds (myspace.com/sowndsmusic)

Hey, hows it goin. Im sonnie. im 23, and have two great kids. One boy one girl. I love sports, football, basketball, and nascar. i also enjoy fishing hunting and just about any outdoor activity. Im also a big reader and movie lover. On hear lookin for somthing serious, and some new friends.Really tired of one night stands, looking for someone who wants to be serious, and dosnt wnat to play games. My kids come first, so sorry mif thats a inconvience.Im a fun loving guy, not serious obout to much, have a great sence of humor.

I am a recent college grad who has decided that I am not done with college and it is not done with me. I believe, if things go accordingly, I will be back in to work on my MS in TCOM or Emergency Management this fall.

I'm pretty laid back, and don't deal with drama so don't bring any with you. I'm pretty lazy too, but if something needs to be done I do it immediatley, otherwise optional tasks will be put off to the absolute last minute.

And according to OKCupid's political test, i am a capitalist pig-dog, but I align myself more with Moderates or Libertarians.

Well. I am not sure what to say..Maybe a few words from a Literary charecter will best say my veiw on the world..Nitwit Fubber Oddment and Tweak ..A Dumbledore

Hello, my name is Dyanna! I live in Sand Springs, Ok. I'm 24 years, brown curly hair, green eyes, 5'4, and I'm a plus size girl. If your just here looking for one night stands please pass me along! I'm looking for someone who wants to start out as friends and maybe work up to something else. I just graduated college in december with a degree in biology. I'm a fun, outgoing girl, with a great personailty and looking for same in a guy. =)

I am a really sweet guy that is always happy it dont take me mutch to be happy .If the people i love is happy then im happy.I just want to meet a nice girl that is honest and can keep it real

I'm not going to act embarrased that I am looking for a connection on a website-why should I feel funny about it? Obviously you are too or you wouldn't be reading this right now! I am a funny, down-to-earth, hard-working woman who has made quite a few mistakes along the way and have no trouble admitting to them. They made me what I am today. I absolutely love my children! They are amazing! Even after fifteen years my job is still new and exciting all the time and even at my advanced age(LOL) I find I learn something new almost everyday. I have come to feel that if you just trust in people-sometimes they let you down-but be proud you had the courage to believe in humanity. Life is what you make it. If you are a negative person you will attract negativity. Don't worry about what you can't change and enjoy every moment God has blessed you with. Face each obstacle with grace and poise, don't wallow in self-pity and if you can-don't let anyone know that you are shaking in your boots!!!!

Im a nice guy seriously. um i have big ambitions in life and just wanna meet somebody nice and down to earth. I honestly think that were all meant to be with somebody. I wish i could be in love again. Ive had my heart broken a couple of times so if your planning on breaking my heart dont even try to talk to me. Just kindding i mean how would you know right?

I live in the sand springs area with a roommate and my four-legged furry child, Dixie. I work full time for a gov't contractor during the week and as an EMT on Saturdays for a rural ambulance service. I am also a volunteer firefighter. I don't have a ton of freetime but I can make time for the right person. I like camping, fishing, shooting, motorcycles, movies, cooking, music, etc...

I will tell you that I tend to be pretty blunt and tell it like I see it... I am independent and I work and can take care of myself... and I expect the same out of a partner... I try to avoid drama and I don't lie, cheat, or play games... and I prefer to be around people who are like minded in that regard... I'm a goofball and I love to laugh... so I probably wouldnt get along with anyone that was super-uptight... don't get me wrong, I can be serious when I need to be... but I try to keep that to an absolute minimum.

My name is Chester. I'm 18. I love music and literature. I dance to my own groove, but I'd love to collaborate with someone. I also think that what I just said was pretty witty. ;D

I'm a nice guy. I'm very relaxed, too. I don't get upset easily, and I'm as understanding as humanly possible. I'm a rather eclectic person in regards to everything. Music, literature, film, art, politics-- I span the spectrum in all of them.

I'm a pretty normal guy. Normal, but not your average guy. I love to travel, but I don't like sight-seeing. I'd rather get to know the people, and just relax in an environment different than my own. I love people. I like to do absurd things for no reason other than the memories. By absurd, I mean pole-dancing in the Eyemart Express parking lot and walking through the neighborhood with champagne classes filled with orange soda or the blue Jones soda. Don't let my previous escapades intimidate you. I'm sure you'd love it if you tried it.

Let me start off by saying I do not look or act my age. I have the energy and looks of a younger woman and maybe that's why I tend to be around those who are younger. Age is just a number, it's about the chemistry between two people that matters to me. I am what I am and that's not gonna change anytime soon, if ever.
I live in the country in a big house that feels very empty with me being single. I've got 9 acres of land - can be a pain in the butt when it's time to rake leaves and or mow but on nice weather days I do enjoy those things. I love to travel but hate to travel alone. Everyone needs some time away from day to day stuff every now and then. I don't go to bars, if I'm gonna drink I would rather do it in a house setting. I would rather talk than text and am not shy about meeting people in person. I'm a free thinker and outspoken. I don't have kids nor do I want any. I'm looking to make a connection with someone special and make new friends.
I wanting someone who is thoughtful and romantic.
I'M NOT HAVING SEX UNLESS IN A COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP, so if that's what you're looking for DON'T BOTHER CONTACTING ME

I enjoy movies, reading, playing video games, and photography. My newest hobby is playing golf, which I really enjoy. I love spending time with my family and have a nephew who is the light of my life.

I work in IT as a Business Analyst...which basically means I have to be able to talk about and understand a business user's needs and translate that into geek speak for the IT department. Its a great job that I really enjoy and I think I finally found the niche I've been looking for career-wise.

I am somewhat old fashioned and really have a hard time messaging or calling a man first (I was brought up to believe guys do that lol, that is something I am working on) My zip code is Tulsa, but I am a Sand Springs girl, born and raised here, just a technicality that my zip code is Tulsa lol.

I am a Certified Medical Assistant. My family is everything to me. I enjoy drawing, watching old movies (musicals are the best), camping, fishing, going to the zoo, holding hands, snuggling, kissing, going to the lake, and many other things. My dad was a square dance caller, so Yes I do know how to square dance. I enjoy going to the Aquarium, plays, musicals. I believe "having fun" is inside you and if with the right person can be had doing most anything, even a trip to the dollar store can be loads of fun LOL. I have been married twice, first time to my childhood sweetheart that lasted 24 years and produced my two wonderful sons. I believe in true love and romance but am still looking for it. Like any other woman I am waiting to be swept off my feet by a man that knows how to treat a woman. I enjoy having the door opened for me and small gestures of kindness, but at the same time am quite capable of doing it myself. I do smoke but trying to quit, quit once and after 1 1/2 years started again ( I know ... dumb lol )

I am a single mom that is tired of the head games. I am looking for that one person that can be my best friend. That will stand by me no matter what life may throw our way, and I will stand by him. I enjoy spending time outside doing just about any and everything. During the summer me and the kids like to camp, fish, cook out, going the the park, zoo, of just hanging out with family and friends. I am not looking for someone to support me, I am doing a good job of supporting myself. Just want to share my spare time with that one special person. If you would like to know, drop me a line and lets chat...

umm.. Im kinda new at this whole online dating thing, but to tell you the truth. Thats not what Im really here for either. Me and my wife have just recently split up, and we were together for about 6 years, and married for the last 2 of that. So really all I want out of this site is for someone to hang out with randomly, and if it works out that I make a new friend out of the deal cool!
I love music, and going to concerts, haven't been to but a handfull, but I plan to go to many more. I play the guitar, and a little bit of the trumpet, and harmonica. Im better at the guitar than the other two.
I spend a lot of my time outdoors, unless it is cold, I don't really like the cold too much it makes my body hurt! I love to build things of my own design I am very handy. I am always trying to learn something, I enjoy knowledge and I would like to have as much as I can get.
One of my favorite quotes is " I have no admiration for a man, who does not know more today. Than he did yesterday." -Abrham Lincoln
Well as you can see Im kinda of nerdy, but if you dont like it. There are about 8.5 billion other people you can go talk to then!

Hey I'm Courtney! I am a very caring person. I like to have fun! I have a very outgoing and laid back personality! I love to laugh and make people laugh! I love to dance!

DISCLAIMER: Gentlemen, while I am perfectly interested in you as friends, I am not looking for a man to date. I apologize for the inconvenience.

I have had a extremely (and sometimes unfortunately) eventful life. I've had many different living situations and usually keep around a strange mix of friends and acquaintances. I am pretty strange and pretty bluntly honest (though I can be polite and tell the truth at the same time usually).

I enjoy: biology, photography, learning (on my own), and a wide variety of other subjects.

I am also interested in living a nomadic lifestyle and am looking for others who might want to travel with me. I currently live in an Airstream travel trailer and will be looking for someone with a 1/2 ton or better truck to help pull it when I hit the road (which won't be for a little while yet because I need to get school straightened out and save up some cash).

I am a single Mom with three girls and I have been divorced many years. I have not had the best of luck in relationships since my divorce but thought I would get out and try again.

I am a large sized woman and no that does not necessarily mean by boobs are big, so sorry to disappoint.

I like anything to do with water like {{swimming}}, {{boating}}, {{fishing}}. I like to {{garden}}, and go to {{garage sales, and flea markets}}.

I don't think I am asking for much when I say I want an honest man. I don't care if you make allot of money as long as you work. I don't care if you are drop dead gorgeous as I have no right to judge. I want someone to grow old with, someone who likes to hold hands, cuddle on the couch, kiss and snuggle with.

Hi, desribing myself isn't easy to those who don't know me, even some of my "friends" still don't know me. I am a fairly easy going, fun-loving outgoing guy. I like to just take time to smell the roses. I am just kind of letting life take me where it wants right now, but I hope to find a few friends to share the journey and maybe a special woman to help me choose the right path to travel.

Hiya, I'm aleks and i make brutal first impressions. I dont dance, i do however play/listen/write music! I'm into athletic things, such as soccer(which i have been playing since i was 8), basketball with the crew, or football on a warm summer day. I do have a daughter who is my one and only true love so if you dont like competition get over it. I enjoy, beyond anything, cuddling and just sitting at home enjoying another persons company.
Currently I am looking for a best friend/significant other. My only wish is that I could find both in one girl. I enjoy just randomly hanging out too so dont be afraid to ask. I'd rather have a good friend than a shitty girlfriend so please come and bring a smile.

i am the mother of six children Four still in school. I own my own company. I am a widow. I spent the last 20 years building my company.I want to find someone to spend time with travel, go to the casino, make me laugh. I do not need some one to take care of me.

I enjoy alot of things, scuba diving/snorkeling is what I enjoy in the tropics, but in the real world, Im pretty easy to please. I like movies, dining out, staying in for a DVD/popcorn. I'm 5' 4", 210# and very confident in who I am as a person.

I'm 5'4, skinny, blue eyes, blonde hair. I'm an animal lover. I love to hang out with my friends, listen to music, go 4-wheeling when I can, I like to go huntin' and fishin'. I just like to have fun and enjoy life. oh..and I love watching football.... My favorite college team is OU!!! I'm very much a smartass... to anybody and everybody. It's just who I am.

I am not too outgoing at first, but I tend to warm up to people quickly. I am a romantic guy and I love to talk with people who can actually hold an intelligent conversation. I feel full of myself writing all about me so just ask if you want to know more...

I'm 6 foot and fairly good build. I mean you have to be a little muscular to enjoy rock climbing as a sport. I like the outdoors, camping and hiking. To tell you the truth I kind of rediscovering myself. I'm trying to find new things I might like try. I'm a sophomore in school right now and planning on staying their for three or four more years to finish up my degree. I don't smoke, and only drink in big groups. I like to think the best in people but don't break my trust depending on what it was sometimes it's hard to get back. I keep my friends close and over all just try to enjoy life.

I never know what to say on these kind of things. I'm a pretty simple girl. Easy to get along with. I don't believe in favorites because there's so many good things out there in the world! I am pretty shy at first, but once I get to know someone I really open up. I trust easily, but once someone hurts me, it's pretty hard to earn my trust back. Oh, and i'm in love with the most amazing guy there is. Yea, that's about all.

I heard about this site from a friend & thought I'd give it a shot & see what happens. I'm just a guy with a purpose. I like to keep my answers short & sweet.

Well,there's not a lot I can say other than I want to get a band and a girlfriend and then I'll be completely happy.As soon as it warms up I'm gonna be playing my guitar on the streets,if it wasn't for my parents & grandma I would be homeless.I know that's a horrible start for describing myself,but I'm very honest about these sort of things.I dabble in bits of everything,but unless it's music I'm completely lost,and sometimes in music I'll still get a little lost.

I currently live alone in an apartment in Tulsa I work at nights stocking at Wal-mart I like to have fun and meet people but I tend to shy away from crowds I have my own style probably what you would call chaotic I like to be very attached to people I can't put emotions into words a lot of times I have been hurt a lot and I'm afraid to be hurt anything else

My hobbies consist of
Watching Television I like the Classic shows like Welcome back Kotter and also some Anime
Listening to Music my favorite album was Midian by Cradle of Filth
Playing Video Games I own a PS3 and Gamecube
Building Models though they are hard to find anymore
I like putting things together I did build my own computer
Occasionally Weightlifting OK I know I am thin but I have hidden muscles ok just so we are clear on that
I surf the Internet a lot just to obtain knowledge I also have a Myspace, Facebook and Yahoo Personals Page
I have a mild interest in Kenpo though I don't take classes or anything

My name is Alvin. I'm 21 years old and like making a big difference in the lives of people around me if they let me. I can't say I'm an extremely active person. I mostly stay in but it's mostly just so I can keep my budget under control. It's ok though because my favorite way to pass the time is hanging out with friends either at my place or theirs and amuse ourselves with discussion or watching tv or movies, but I love getting out and relaxing at coffee shops, bars, or parks.
At one time I used to major in psychology; I really wanted to help people through their problems and figure out some of mine on the way, So I love listening to whatever people have to say and apply advice when desired.

I'm 41 years old, and got ID'd on my last birthday, so make what you will of that.

I'm not hungry or weak, I'm just thin.

I wear a styling hat: A reproduction 1864 religious or medical corp kepi, captains rank. Some times I wear a gray fedora. I dress like an extra in a Humphrey Bogart movie that gets killed/beaten up in the first reel. I currently am very pleased with the Doc Martin Wingtips that were purchased for $2.00 at a thrift shop. It'll take me years to wear these shoes down walking. I accent this eclectic/anachronistic look with a pair of cheap sunglasses that have an MP3 player built in. Did I mention the Mustache Wax? Yes, I sometimes use Mustache Wax; It's the line between weird and eccentric. I believe the college kids call this look "Steam Punk". Whatever.

I don't drive; by choice. I really like to walk everywhere I go (within reason). It seems to balance out all the time I spend sitting in front of the computer playing games and going online.

I'm a volunteer leader for a large Boy Scout troop and hope one day to be the scout master.

Well, I really feel kinda silly doing this but i just thought i would try it out. I know who i am and what i want in life for the most part. I'm a friendly and fun girl who likes to meet new people!!

HELLO EVERYONE, I ENJOY GOING TO CONCERTS WATCHING NASCAR AND FOOTBALL. I ALSO ENJOY CAMPING AT THE RIVER AND LAKES. JUST LOOKING FOR SOMEONE NICE ON HERE. I DONT WANT TO MOVE TO FAST JUST GET TO KNOW SOMEONE FIRST.

I am a 31 year old black male. I am a very outgoing and calm cool and collected person who enjoys chit chatting, going out on the town sometimes to have a little fun, I like spending time with family and friends.

I have a great sense of humor and I enjoy making people laugh. I'm single, I have no children but I do love kids. I do have many sides to me, I can be very caring, I love to listen and love to have somebody listen to me also. I'm a open minded person who love trying new things at least once! Please feel free to hit me up on yahoo messager "smooth4d", or leave me a message here. Hit me up! Deon

A lot of people are cry babies about this section and I'm not too sure why. All you have to do is type stuff, it doesn't have to flow or be coherent at all. We all know how we see ourselves is far from the truth, we just accept it at face value. Don't be such butter butts about this.

Anyways, Hi, my name is JJ, that is short for something. No I won't tell you (yet). My life is pretty simple and I like that. I don't need anything too exciting to be happy, I'm a quasi-transcendentalist and live by "keep it simple stupid." Of course that is just code for my life is boring as shit and I'm fine with it. If you want to get shitfaced, fuck a lot of people, make of fool of yourself that is cool, I don't care, you can do whatever the hell you want and I might join in on it too.

On the subject of mind "enhancing" substances:
Alcohol - Don't care, don't go overboard with it, I very rarely do it. I hate drunks.
Marijuana - Don't care, I enjoy it. Don't go overboard. I love stoners (I know I'm a total hypocrite right).
Cigarettes - Don't care, I used to smoke. I enjoy one after herb.
Coffee - Don't care, I like it.
Hard drugs - I have no time to babysit addicts. Live your life away from me.

I am a pretty hardcore atheist. I'm a Market Anarchist (Anarcho-Capitalist but I hate that term.) I love politics, philosophy, psychology and religion with a passion. I do have a little bit of a what someone would call a logical spiritual side but only when I ramble on about philosophy. You could say I look at life with a darker side but with intellect, passion and flare. I've always been a fan of the darker things in life like: horror, death, scene (goth, punk, etc) culture, paganism and what not. Everything I wish I could portray outward to be that lone, mysterious individual but it's just not me.

In regards of entertainment, I'm a semi-hardcore gamer. I like most rpg, fps and I love retro games (I grew up with an NES after all). I love art of all kinds with very few exceptions and am a huge fan of what they call anti-art or dadaism (dada). I personally am not good at art, I do write occasionally, but art always puts me in a place of pleasure. I love music, there isn't much to say. I like Industrial, Underground Hip Hop and alternative rock. My movie tastes stay at pretty much Indie, it reminds me of something we've lost in the mainstream community. I have no problem with mainstream movies and will typically watch anything.

I think this is a decent start, don't you? I dare say I outdid my expectations. If there is anything else you want to know, please don't be afraid to ask. There is very little I won't share, and if we're going to start a relationship at some point, my personal life is yours.

Oh, one more thing, I love tea!!!!!!11111one1111!!11!1111!1111

There is so much to see and do, and sharing the experiences makes life so much more enjoyable and meaningful. Making memories that will be treasured for all the years to come, and finding pleasure in each other and the offerings of each day are what life is all about. I sincerely appreciate all the little things that bring joy to each day. I've lived in several states and traveled abroad, and I appreciate the various cultures of the world.

I graciously and erratically enjoy the oddities and strife of this existential, beautiful, and sometimes mundane life. Gain a friend.................yes, i guess i felt like rhyming. I like city life and country living. A cool ((concert)) too. I can be goofy, and know how to make you smile. Im not too selfish, you will be satisfied first. I have a vocal interest in all things and listen well, but im also passionate about learning something new, and sharing.

I will get to this sometime.

Really.

Just let me save the other stuff.

I enjoy relaxing and doing simple things. I enjoy watching movies working out, and doing service projects
I also enjoying midtown. It is really nice in Broken Arrow. Their are wonderful people and the landscape and architecture downtown are fun to ride you bicycle through during midtown.

Alcohol is my way of life if im not drinking im shooting it up

I am a very open and honest person. I believe having an open mind is the best way to grow. I'm kinda quiet when I first meet people. Its not that I am shy, I just like to get a feel for someone I am just meeting. However, once I get to know you a bit, its hard to shut me up. I love to have fun. For me fun can be anything from going to the club for a few drinks and dancing, playing at the park with my kids, seeing a good band, dancing with my belly dance troupe, hanging out with a friend at home to just being silly and acting like a kid again. I look for the same spirit in my friends and I don't care much for people who are fake, false or mean-tempered.

About me, what can i say about myself? Well I've been through alot in my short life and maybe one day i'll share those details with anyone who's interested over a hot cup of coffee. But for the most part I'm a very humerous person. I like to laugh and i like people who will laugh with me. I can be very serious when it calls for it. I'm currently trying to finish school (feel like i've been going forever). I'm a romatic at heart and i love all the mushy stuff that goes with it. I'm an island girl at my core but I've grown up in the states since i was four, so no accent here but i do wish i had one. I have two younger brothers but they act like older brothers, they have taken on the protective role in my life, but i guess that's what brothers are for. I have a lot to say but only when i feel comfortable enough to share my heart.

I think because of my practical upbringing, I tend to live a bit conservatively yet I appreciate the quirky and unconventional and I am open to difference. I love to travel and I have lived in a number of states--Hawaii, Texas, California. I also spent two years teaching English with The Peace Corps in Africa. I've also traveled to parts of Europe, Thailand, and India. I love good conversation and hanging out with people who make me laugh. If I had my choice of where to be right now...I would be trekking in New Mexico or Utah.

I am lookin for fine females only no men!!!! i am independent sexy woman

I have led an interesting life so far. Everyday is an adventure. I have a 10 year old son who is the center of my universe. I like football, basketball, baseball, ect. I love working with my hands. I like solving problems also. Finding new things I like everyday.
Honestly, I am so tired of fake people. I can't say that I am looking for my true love, more so just trying to find people I can relate to and enjoy. I keep myself in shape but not a gym ratt. Looking for someone to go out and have a fun time with!
I would like to say that I am not in to fake people. My experience thus far in this dating thing are not even 3 stars. I would love to meet someone who makes me stop what I'm doing, whatever it is, just to admire them. I am afraid I am fixin to be too honest now so if you would like me to further explain myself, just ask me.

I am a single man with no children. I have never been married, but I think I would like to someday if I met the right gal. I work full time in management and go to school part time. I am a history major and plan to teach after I graduate. I am nice and sometimes quiet, but I do have a mischievious and playful nature and a good sense of humor. I can be too sarcastic for my own good sometimes, and I am honest to a fault. Sometimes people don't like to hear the truth. I love to travel and meet new people, especially people from different cultural backgrounds. I have lived most of my life in Oklahoma, but have lived in Vermont and New Jersey. I am open minded, accepting, and a good listener. I am compassionate and always try to help others, but I can lose patience with people who refuse to help themselves. I love music, movies, reading, writing, cooking, sculpting, spending time with friends and family, bowling, horseback riding, swimming, and singing when noone else is around. I live with my two guinea pigs Pepe and Louis (I think they are french), and my basset, Sir Barney Bart (Earl of Bristol, Knight of the Bath and the Order of St. John, First Lord of the Admiralty).

From My Facebook Profile:
I like Photography, Anime, Cars, Vidja Games, Poetry, anything that can hold my attention for long periods of time.

Hi! I'm one of those people who can have fun doing just about anything. For me, it's all about the company. I love being outdoors (softball, kickball, snowboarding, running, playing with my dog) but also love some quality down time when needed (reading, watching movies, the occasional reality-TV guilty pleasure). I play and watch a ton of sports and I am usually the first to laugh at myself. I know myself well, but I know enough to not take myself seriously. I'm equally comfortable in running shoes and ratty jeans or killer heels and a cute dress. I think a sense of humor is the sexiest thing a man can wear, but i'm a sucker for a cute guy who wears a baseball cap well. I enjoy going home to go hunting with my family, but I also enjoy girs' night with sushi and martinis out on the town. I'm definitely a contradiction on the surface, but not at the heart of the matter.

Hey - I hate question and answer period. I spend a lot of time working. I have a career which requires me to be on call A LOT. I do love the job I have and feel I am very passionate about what I do. I love anything that is outside, i.e fishing, camping, and someday hopefully hunting. I would rather discuss myself at another time as I am not very comfortable in trying to figure out a way to adequately describe myself in just a few sentences.

Im pretty laid back most of the time....Very easy to talk to...When i say something i have usually thought it through,(with an exeption once in a while lol)......I know where im going in life, just not sure whats going to happen along the way.....I WAS HERE ONCE ALREADY.....And it wasnt all that then,so Im skeptical now.....lol.... Prove to me theres someone worthy out there......

Have a sense of humor!

SWM in dead-end job seeks dumpy neurotic for mutual psychological torture, tepid sex, and co-dependency. I enjoy drinking, smoking, pornography, and self-righteous indignation.

I can't stand movies, and the last album I bought was The Marshall Tucker Band's Greatest Hits. I have middling intelligence but try to appear smarter by affecting a world-weary air, memorizing useless facts, and chuckling at my own mean-spirited, agenda-driven jokes.

I'm 34, but look 40 and feel 50. You are a whiny, bitter shrew with a misplaced sense of entitlement and unrealistic expectations. In time you will become coolly hostile when I don't fulfill every unmet need you've ever had. Bonus points if you just finished screwing every guy in town and but now want to take it slow with me.

Age unimportant, but I will condescend to women under 30 and rehash mother issues with women over 40.

Serious replies only, please.

Hey I'm Nick I have lived in Tulsa all my life I'm very close to my family have great friends who I would do anything for and a spoiled rotten dog named Oliver. I have a really cush job as a warehouse manager and have been there going on six years. I was married for ten years faithfully and have been single for three years now, I won't lie I had my share of fun but now I'm really ready for something truly meaningful. I want that feeling of not being able to wait to get off work and see my sweetheart. I'm very rational sometimes a little to much so. Im affectionate responsible and kind of shy until I get to know someone. I like to be in the front of the pack and lead in most situations. I'm more of a homebody during the winter and enjoy just cuddling up on the couch with a blanket and watching a movie or tv. I love the outdoors esp. Offroading and hiking. My other interests would be riding my motorcycle playing video games with my friends watching movies esp. Zombie movies. As far as tv I prefer something educational, history based, or comedy ie south park family guy comedy central Im really not into the whole mainstream reality tv thing. I don't like bars or clubs but will go for special ocassions. I am 420 friendly which I seem to be a rarity being that I hold a job and have things going even though I smoke daily. I can be rather serious at times but still know how to have a good time. I'm a thinker at heart and really enjoy intelligent conversations about the bigger picture of things ie politics space nature religion or just the concept of life. I have experienced alot of good and bad in my life and have no regrets about the path I have taken and wouldn't change a thing. I am looking for someone in my age range 26-36 give or take that has their life together meaning job car own place and that is independent that likes to just go drive or go hiking just to see whats on the other side of that hill. As far as children go im not sure I want any of my own but am open to someone with 1 or 2.

I am a retired business man who worked as Branch Mgr for a large sales Co.With a large number of employees both in sales I retired after 25 years service at which time I bought and ran my own retail store for over 20 years in Tulsa. I was married TO ONE WOMAN for 49 years and have 3 children and 4 grand kids.My wife died 2 years ago and this is my first attempt at reaching out to find greatly needed love and compaionship and someone to help brighten up my days and nights

I am an artist who grew up here in Tulsa. I enjoy spending time with my friends, driving around aimlessly and staying up when this podunk town has tucked in for the night. I've spent most of my twenties in long term relationships and as such, I have little to no idea of how to date casually so I'm hoping that this is a decent alternative to carousing in dive bars and catching something nasty. Besides, I'm more interested in meeting new people than I am in getting involved in anything. I'm easy to talk to and I've been told I have a good sense of humor, but that's something that people say to everyone, right? Talk to me and judge for yourself.

I love being outside, I hate the cold unless I am in Colorado. I love just being with my friends and chilling. I am a really laid back person that HATES drama. Im a sucker for wine bars. My favorite area in Tulsa is brookside...you will always find me there! I love love love music and I try to make every concert worth going to. I am also really into art and photography...I am always looking for a good art show to go see. I love to write and draw...its my way of dealing with stress. I own my own business and work in a local ER so Im forced to be somewhat of an adult during the day;) I have amazing friends that I dont know what I would do without. Anything else you must know you will need to just ask me:)

I'm just looking for a riveting someone(s) to talk to via email/IM. If we click, become best virtual friends, and have 7 virtual pet kittens, excellent. If we just have one meaningless conversation, that's fine too. I'm really introverted though(trying to change that), so my social meter fills up easily. Unless we do click, then I'll yap your head off.

I've kind of veered of my path in life. I don't know where I'm going or where I want to end up. And there's a hungry squirrel chasing me. The typical life just doesn't interest me at all. Maybe someone can change my mind.

I'm a vegetarian, or at least try to be. Mostly because I don't like the taste/smell of meat, but I would do it for the animals too. If the word 'cow' brings up images of steak and cheeseburgers, don't worry it won't offend me. I love concocting meat alternatives, even with the low success rate. I'm not too picky.

I love pianos. Guitars are nifty too. I...attempt to play both. My future self definitely owns a violin. I try to write songs and compose piano sonatas, but I can't find my muse. Maybe I suck at it, but I refuse to accept that. Channel the beethoven you stupid fingers.

Most of my other likes/interests surround: psychology, philosophy, physics, neurology, nutrition, language, artificial intelligence, architecture, graphic design, photography, clouds, dreaming, tree-climbing, hiking, biking, walking without a destination, star-gazing, cats, quiet animals, gloomy days, mysterious stuff, etc.

IM an easy goin guy and fun to get to know. I have one great love in my life right now, my daughter, and Im lookin for a second. I love being outdoors and enjoy many activities such as fishing, camping, and maybe even just sitting on the front porch in the company of a good woman.

I recently moved to Tulsa from Virginia, where I lived for two years. I'm a native Missourian who went to high school and college in Kansas. Friends would describe me as funny, intelligent, loyal, bright and a great listener. I've never been one to play games. If you like me, great, we can hang out. If you don't, no big deal. My family is extremely important. I love my niece and nephews. The two or three days a month I get to see them just isn't enough.

I also work a lot. It's part of the gig. BUT, I also make time for myself and anybody I'm with. I know how to treat women. I'm a bit old-fashioned in that respect, opening doors, which should be a law, and whatnot.

Oh, and the nickname? Hootie. It started as a joke, a friend's mother found it funny that I actually like Hootie and the Blowfish (as a lot of people do) and started calling me Hootie. It caught on.

Something you should probably know about me ... I'm a Missouri Tiger fan. And that's putting it mildly. Let's just say I flew home from Virginia to watch the KU-MU football game in 2007. Yes, I flew 1,100 miles to watch a football game.

Im a good guy who is often pushed aside and overlooked alot due to being so nice. Make alot of friends but everyone needs some one more. Im hardcore with a soft chewy nuget center. Like and ogre lol. layers. Im new to all this but what can it hurt? and blabla bla just ask! Im pretty easy to talk to. For a lil more of my harder side visit my myspace. Add me if ya want. http://www.myspace.com/fatassmuthafucca

My name is Cris and I'm from Tulsa. I'm 25 and I'm looking for a good hearted women to have a good time with and see where things go.

I know this is all very short but im not the kind of person that spills his entire life on an open site like this.....so please if you would really like to know something about me make it interesting and just ask me.